![]() ![]() Do not do so in a way to insult your woman, as the tattoo is now a permanent part of your wife's person, and therefore should be respected as a part of your wife.īut your concerns about feeling left out of such an important decision, and how you want her to know she is beautiful to you as a treasure like she is, and you are very sensitive to anything that will affect that beauty. The solution is this, to first get yourself calm and confident over the matter, to be able to communicate with clarity from strength and dignity, and not to "blow your top" or in some other way lose control of yourself.Īnd when you are this way, be perfectly honest about your feelings with her. Maybe there is more to this tattoo story, maybe not.īut to see this for what it is, the opportunity for you as the good man to show your woman how strongly you feel about her, and what she does to her body does concern you. Your woman is away alone for the first time. What you do to your body affects her, and what she does to her body affects you, because she is your woman and you are her man. Such talk is as a venomous poison that will lead only to resentment. Such typing shows disrespect to marriage, which is a union of faith between a man and a woman, and not simply two individuals being roomates or such things. This thread is very interesting, and is already full of dangerous advice.įirst, ignore all posts saying that it is "her body" and you have no say. I’m having a real hard time dealing with it on a lot of levels…Īny ideas on how to cope/communicate on this? I guess I feel “cheated on” by this intellectual/physical decision and really feel that this was a very selfish thing to do after 11 years of marriage, children, and a life together.….this is the women I love to love, thought her perfect beautiful body didn’t need to have a garden on the stomach. ![]() I haven’t told her that…not sure if I could. To be honest, I am not all that impressed by, nor “turned on” by this large yellow blossoming flora on her stomach. Why a yellow flower? I don’t know…she says it’s pretty (I would have been less mad if it had some sort of familial/personnel significance). However, I just get to live with it now….that huge yellow flower on her hip/stomach. ![]() I think I may have actually been really excited about it if we both agreed on what/where it would be. I wouldn’t have been against her getting a tattoo, if I were told about it up front and brought in on the decision of type, location, and size, even if over the phone after all, im gonna be looking at it more than her probably….but nadda. I think I would have been more pleasantly surprised by one of those Florida beach tourist “ship-in-a-bottle.” Her second point of rationalization for not including me was that she “wanted to surprise me.” She certainly achieved that. ![]() I wouldn’t think of coming back from one of my trips with some “Thorny vine ropes” belted around my love handles. She goes on to rationalize that she has been thinking of getting a tattoo for some time….but I don’t remember….in fact I know, that it has not come up in the past 11 years of converse never has there been the “Ya know husband….I really think a tattoo on my stomach, about 5 inches large…would be hot…what do you think?” (we have joked of her getting my name across her lower back between some “butt-antlers”….but that was a random historical joke). I haven’t seen it in person yet, I’m still in Europe, but she has sent me pictures. My initial reaction: I didn’t know to laugh, be mad, or ponder “what the heck happened there that made you get a tattoo? You sure you were “by yourself?””….then I got mad. When she gets back she calls me and I ask, “So, how was Florida?” She replies, “It was great, I went to the beach on Saturday, by myself, and got a Tattoo on my stomach.” Grandma flies in to watch the children, she takes off on her first company sponsored trip. So, I have to go to Europe for 2 weeks, and she has to go to Miami on a business trip. She's a successful careerist, mom, wife, and person. He has a big, long, wide cock.Well so ya, my wife after being together for 11 years gets a tattoo.and doesn’t tell me about it till after the ink is already dry.īackground: First off, nothing against tattoos, we are just not the “Ink Type Couple.” I’m in the military and am gone a week or so every month. The "Black Bull" is black man with dominant, alpha features. She can be anyone, The Spade is a penis of a Black Bull, and the Q is the Queen (The Girl). A Queen of Spade, in todays world, isa white girl, She can be your wife, sister, mom, irlfriend, wife, schoolmate or just a friend. Just Questions How should feel now that my wife has a Queen of Spades tattoo on her butt? Ilam not BBC expert, but can explain what it means with high accuracy. ![]()
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